Let me start off by saying that there is nothing wrong with being single. Do I hate seeing couples, yes. Do I hate seeing couples of Valentine’s day, hell yes but that’s life (lol). I asked some friends, and they are also ok with being single. It’s not like were gonna be single forever. It just means that we can have fun until we can’t (lol). My problem is that I can’t go up to guys. I just can’t do it. It’s awkward and i’m awkward. Seriously, what would I say? It’s different for guys because they usually pick up women by talking to them. I know a lot of women are upfront but I believe the guy should be upfront. Women who are upfront may make a guy seem like they are too demanding. Others are okay with it. Back in the day, men always wooed a woman. You would never see a woman do that. I know times are different which is why I am ok being single right now (lol)
There are the girls who have lots of guy friends and I envy them. I envy them because I can’t do that. It means that they are comfortable around them and have no shame . There are many types of people in the world, that is why it is ok to not be that person. I was never that person in school. I had some guy friends but not a lot. Sometimes, I sound a little boy crazed but that is just the single woman in me. Don’t act like you all haven’t been here before, because you have. Being single is a gift. I am not gonna die single but I wanna enjoy my life without being tied down. I currently roll over and can stretch out on my bed (dorm bed) without someone annoying me. Whenever I get married, I know I will me these moments (it’s no time soon).