Are you single in college right now? Do you want a college sweetheart? Everyone wants relationship goals in college because it’s cute and you get jealous looking at others. Being single sucks even though I don’t mind it. It’s hard meeting people in general especially if you are shy and barely talk. There are three types of people when finding a boyfriend in school. First you have the shy people, next you have the people who are out going with guy friends, then you have the ones who play hard to get.
I am obviously talking about girls here so just deal with it. I am female so I will be talking about girls getting guys. Shy people are adorable. They are too afraid to go up to people because they are shy. They can’t help it. A lot of guys like shy girls but the point is to get a guy first. How? I guess if faith works in anyway, the guy eventually comes up to you. That’s usually how it works. Shy girls don’t go up to guys they don’t know. Even though they are shy, they end up having great relationships.
Next you have the girl with the guy friends. I am so jealous of these girls. OMG! How? It’s definitely a personality thing because most girls are more outgoing. That is not me but my sisters are. They make friends with guys more but I am more of a introvert so I have never had a lot of guy friends. These type of girls get guys easily. It’s most likely people they already know so it’s easier. I swear I hate the girls (lol).
Lastly, you have the girls who play hard to get. I am apart of this and the shy types. These girls don’t say yes easily. You have to work hard to get these girls which is good. By the way, I am talking about guys trying hard. I didn’t want anyone to think I am trying to get a girl because I am trying to get a guy (lol). When I see a good looking guy, I walk by, look, and then look away. When a guy talks to me, I try to look serious (lol). I don’t know what’s wrong with me. Maybe it works for some people.
Covid isn’t making it any better by the way. We wear masks all day and can’t see a face. I try not to wear makeup because of this. This is the main reason I stopped trying so hard. I need to change my approach.